The last few days I’ve observed some interesting behavior. Well, it’s interesting to me…maybe I’m late to the game. Our cell phones have become our most prizes and sacred possession. As the industry evolved from feature phones to smartphones, our cell phones have become the center piece of lives. Our contacts, connections, tools, notes, messages (text, email, etc.) and access to the world (via apps like Facebook) all fit in the palm of our hands. People would rather give you their house keys than their cell phone.
A few weeks ago I was in Las Vegas, waiting in line to ride the roller coaster at New York New York. I observed a very interesting exchange between a married couple. The wife wanted to use her husband’s iPhone. He was obviously hesitant. She was a bit inebriated (I’m being nice) and expressed to him that he need not worry, because she wasn’t going to read his emails, she just wanted to make a call. Think about that. They are MARRIED and he doesn’t want to share his phone. Say what? You gave her a ring, signed up for life together, but you won’t share your phone?
The past few days, I’ve observed similar behavior, even between myself and other people. A friend was showing me something on her phone, but the angle was poor. I went to grab the phone and adjust the angle. You would have thought that I was some random crazy person, because the speed and ferociousness used to pull the phone away from my fingers was legendary. She apologized…explained it was a gut reaction and then ever so slowly handed over the phone. While I was holding the phone and looking at the screen, it was clear she was extremely uncomfortable with the situation. Keep in mind, we’ve known each other for about 6 years.
Crazy. But, I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. Information is valuable. And the information contained in our cell phones is unique, specific to the owner and sometimes irreplaceable. For me though, I’d like to be in a relationship with someone where I don’t even need to password protect phone and would trust them (and vice versa) to use it ad hoc. I can dream.















