It’s been a hell of a year. Before the start of the New Year I often take stock of the current year. I think it’s important to reflect on what you’ve learned, otherwise you’ll simply make the same mistakes. 2010 was an interesting year. I think the overall theme was humbled. When I add up everything I experienced, everything I’ve learned, it all rolls up to that magic word. I could wax on and on about the definition of humbled and how it applies to the last 12 months, but I’ll spare you the philosophy and get right to everything I’ve learned.
- Pork bellies are to die for
- Social media is creating mobs reminiscent of ancient Rome
- Never under-estimate the impact, power and influence Facebook has on your own relationships
- I can live without “stuff” – I think we accumulate too much stuff unnecessarily, it’s amazing how little you can get by on
- I love my car, it loves me and it’s just that simple
- People who have dogs are a little bit crazy; nod your head, accept it and move on – we’re all a little crazy
- White plates aren’t boring, they’re pretty cool
- The world and people are fickle. One minute your up, the next minute your down.
- As Sinatra said, “some people get their kicks stomping on a dream”
- Sweet tea is great; I sometimes wish I lived in the south so I can have it every day
- Business class isn’t worth paying for
- Music is more important to me than I ever thought it was or it could be
- If it doesn’t make dollars, it doesn’t make sense
- Don’t sweat the small stuff; it ain’t worth it
- Accept that flights will be delayed and/or canceled; it happens
- When you see the red flags, stop and reconsider
- Abide by Gladwell’s “Blink” concept
- Blood is thicker than water; never under-estimate the influence parents have
- Quality over quantity
- There’s red wine out there I can enjoy
- As the Godfather said, “keep your friends close and your enemies closer
- Try as I might, I still have no love for fish
- Kids can make you feel old and young at the same time
- Take chances, take risks and embrace failure
- I still believe in the idea of the grand gesture, despite seeing it backfire 3 times this year
- You can’t expect people to live up to the expectations you place upon yourself; we’re all different
- I’m addicted to Hot Chocolate – the best is from Peet’s Coffee
- Forever isn’t forever, it for as long as you make it
- You can leverage customer service as great marketing; see Southwest
- 10 year old+ Crystal Pepsi is not tasty at all
- Apparently, I notice people’s teeth first; it’s made me more aware of my own teeth
- In the first 5 minutes people will tell you their 3 most important “things”
- Virtual connections are great, but real ones are better
- I’m not a fan of makeup on women – just not, sorry
- My feet have gotten bigger or shoes sizes are skewing smaller – either way, I gained a half size
- Live concerts are amazing; there is no comparison
- My ex-wife is an amazing mother and friend. We should all be so lucky to have such great divorces. Every time I see my kids I see the impact she makes on them every day.
- “Change The Game” is an over used marketing goal/strategy and/or tagline
- CraigsList amazes me – so easy to use, so effective
- You’re not as important as you think you are; people move on really quick and you’re easily forgotten
- Cell phones are cheaply made – I’ve broken two this year, one by dropping and one from some water
- Being stubborn doesn’t help anyone, least of all, yourself
- Make the little things, the big things
- You can never have enough cabinet space in your kitchen
- eMail, texting, chatting and other forms of digital communication are crippling us – make more time for face time
- What’s in the box matters…
- I’m a great dad, but I can still be better
- You’ll meet new and amazing people when you least expect it
- It takes two; you can only control your own destiny to a point
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I was wrong about the iPad. It’s quickly becoming the killer device.
- I was right about Android; the walled garden Apple offers won’t be able to compete
- It’s not about who you are or where you are; it’s about who you’re with
- I don’t know as much as I thought I did
So there it is. 2010 was a year of ups and downs, highs and lows and at times was like a roller coaster. I’m looking forward to applying everything I learned in 2010 to 2011. I have a feeling 2011 is going to be pretty kick ass.









