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SETI@home – The First Real Global Social Network

We’re still all a flutter with the concept of “social networks.”  Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, YouTube, and Flickr generally get the most attention.  They’re well known and are the household names that even your mom knows.  Last night I watched an episode of Numb3rs that referenced the famous Seti@Home project.  For those that don’t remember SETI is an acronym for the Search for Extra-Terrestrial Intelligence.  It’s a volunteer based social computing project that launched in May 1999.

There are all these conversations taking place in space.  Some are simply noise, but some could be evidence of life beyond this planet.  Someone needs to make sense of the noise.  It takes an inordinate amount of time and effort to sift through and make sense of the information.  For years special large super computers were used to analyze very narrow band radio frequency from outer space. Relying on just the limited number of super computers was a slow time consuming approach.  The Seti@home project was designed to eliminate that problem.

By  downloading the Seti@home software any computer anywhere in the world could help make sense of the noise coming from space.  In essence the Seti@home project combines the power of all the computers participating in the program to decode the data from space faster.  The more people who download and participate, the faster we’ll discover life beyond Earth.  Talk about joining something for a higher order of reason. 

I remember when Seti came on the scene.  I was working at Fallon and learned about it from a colleague.  He explained to me that every person who signed up for the program was helping to find Extra-Terrestrial Intelligence.  He demoed the software for me and I was hooked.  I downloaded the software and started trying to convince all my friends and family to do the same.

To date the Seti@home project has over 5 million members in more than 200 countries.  This is amazing considering the original goal for the program was between 50,000 and 100,000 members.  In total this community has contributed over 19 billion hours of computer processing time.  Unfortunately, the project hasn’t uncovered any Extra-Terrestrial Intelligence, but it has identified several candidate targets (sky positions).  In 2004, the astronomer Seth Shostak indicated a conclusive signal from Extra-Terrestrial Intelligence would happen some time between 2020 and 2025.  That’s an amazing amount of progress for a program that’s only 10 years old.

Brining this back to social networking, the buzz topic du jour.  The Seti initiative has all the underpinnings of what a defines a great social network:

  1. Limited barriers to join
  2. Gender and age agnostic
  3. A real reason for joining – a greater good
  4. Sense of being and purpose
  5. Like-minded individuals
  6. Connected to a common goal
  7. Constant feedback
  8. Measurable results
  9. Authenticity…
  10. …and yes even Transparency
  11. The ability to opt out easily

This isn’t to say that Seti@home is perfect. In truth, it’s a social network that’s showing its age. In today’s new and ever evolving landscape where we’re all hyper-connected to the internet it seems like they’ve passed on serious opportunity. For example, how hard would it be to have an iPhone app that leverages the 3G network to compute the information a Facebook/iGoogle widget that basically is the software? Given all the people we’re connected with and the ease/efficiency to grow networks today, why haven’t they invested in leveraging those connections?

As the web evolved the program remained virtually stagnant…trapped in 1999. If ever there were an initiative that could really harness the power of today’s social web this is it. Seti I want to help. Let’s talk.

It’s Not About Where You Are – It’s About Who You’re With

A few weeks ago I wrote a post titled “It’s Not Who You Are – It’s Where You Are.”

Several things have happened over the past few weeks that have me thinking about how to extend that concept.

  1. Had several great exchanges via twitter with Norbert Mayer-Wittmann about communities.
  2. Read some interesting posts by Stephen Baker about the concept of “friends” and “friendship.” It’s something I’ve been pondering for a while as well. Specifically the definition of a friend on Facebook.
  3. Unlinked my twitter feed from my Facebook account. This meant people I was friends with were no longer seeing what I was doing and saying on twitter. Since I did that, I’ve received a lot of thank you messages from my Facebook friends. I also haven’t updated my Facebook status since I unliked the two.
  4. Started experimenting with Tumblr.
  5. Read this great post from Stephen Baker and Ben Elowitz regarding how to make Business Exchange better.
  6. Took another trip to MySpace and quickly left.
  7. Created my Google profile which links all my profiles together.

Basically I’ve been doing a lot of reading, conversing, and learning about communication, communities, and integration.

Conceptually, I’ve always believed that it’s not about twitter vs. Facebook vs. MySpace vs. something else. I’ve generally prescribed to the fact each network has it’s own reason for being.

Earlier today, I felt like I made a breakthrough in my thinking. It’s not about where you are, it’s about who you’re with. The reason I don’t use MySpace (beyond it’s horrible interface) is that none of my “friends” are there. The reason I’m struggling with Tumblr (despite the fact I love its interface) is that none of my “friends” are there.  Where your “friends” are leads to the joining and retaining of you in a community.

I remember as a teenager going to a really crappy movie just to hang out with my girlfriend at the time. I tolerated a bad movie, at a less than desirable theater, that was 45 miles from home, and had bad popcorn. Why? Because I enjoyed the company. We make similar decisions every day.

Where our friends are can impact where we work, where we eat lunch, the gym we belong to, and yes the social communities we join. But, here’s the thing – your work friends aren’t the same as your old high school friends. Communicating with all your friends the same way is a recipe for failure. Consider who your friends are and where they are – when you do that you just might rethink how to communicate with them.

The Non Popular Question About The P&G Digital Night

Long story short:

  1. P&G hosted an event called Digital Hack Night.
  2. The event was designed to immerse, educate, and demonstrate the power of digital marketing to it’s marketing directors
  3. The brought in sharp minds like David Armano, Peter Kim, Kelly Mooney and leaders form Google, MySpace, Facebook also attended. Note, Twitter did not attend.
  4. The backbone to the event was a contest to raise money for charity by selling t-shirts. The combination of P&G Marketing Directors, famous peeps, and leaders were split into 4 teams. Each team competed to see who could rake in the most cash.

That’s all I’m going to cover about the event. Other people have given it better and more thorough coverage. You can read about it here, here, here, and here.

I’ve found most “leaders” to rarely establish a serious position, rock the boat, or be controversial.  Instead they focus on being “politically correct.”  By politically correct, I mean not choosing a side – instead opting to find pros and cons with both sides.  Since no one else will ask the difficult questions, I felt I should.  That’s my style.

What I want to focus on is this quote from Peter Kim

At the end of the evening, P&G’s CMO Marc Pritchard remarked that in the future, all employees should get involved in activating connections similar to what had just been witnessed.

I posted the following on Peter’s site:

Peter-
Nice recap. If the future is that all employees should be involved in activating their connections 3 things must happen:

  1. Employees should be rewarded for the impact they make – this changes compensation structures
  2. Personal brands must be embraced and supported; with rules needing relaxation so that employees aren’t being stifled – can a corporate company really embrace this?
  3. Partners will need to be held accountable as well. – If employees are expected to do this, shouldn’t their agencies, packaging suppliers, etc.

At the and of the day the question I want to pose to the community (though few will actually answer) is at what point does this simply become just a very large pyramid scheme, that’s backed by one of the largest and most powerful companies in the world? Is this the future of marketing?

There’s been a lot of debate lately about personal brands. Specifically, the question has been raised about how important they are and if people should put their name (aka their brand) first or their companies. Make no mistake, the digital experts that were brought to Cincinnati for the event leveraged their personal brands big time.

P&G in effect is asking for people (albeit indirectly) to establish personal brands, grow the size of their virtual and real rolodexes, and leverage their personal brand in combination with their network size for the GREATER good of the company.

One part of me says, right on, EXACTLY. After all shouldn’t you support the company you work for? When I worked at ConAgra Foods, I traded Heinz Ketchup for Hunts and Nathan’s for Hebrew National. In general I embrace the brands I work on. I now work on Rite-Aid. You can be sure I’ll be getting my prescriptions there and not anyone else.

Here’s the million dollar question. Should employees, vendors, and partners be compensated for doing this or should it simply be part of the job?

Think about it. You are leveraging your personal network and brand for the greater good of your client and company. That’s not exactly in the job description :) It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it, but it begs the question, no?

Let’s say I work for BMW and I convince 10 of my friends who were leaning towards Lexus to buy a BMW.  Let’s take a round number like $50,000 and call that the value of each car.  In effect, didn’t I generate $500,000 in sales for BMW?  Didn’t I do the job of the dealer, the ad agency, the TV spot, the web site, etc.?  Yet, in most cultures I’d never be compensated for extending myself.  What happens if person #2′s BMW has a boat load of problems.  It’s my reputation that gets sullied.  Remember, I convinced him to go BMW over Lexus.

This isn’t that far fetched.  Do you know how many people I got to switch to Peter Pan peanut-butter (subsequently people were pissed at me after Peter Pan announced it had salmonella) or choose Nikon over Canon when I worked on those brands?  100s if not 1000s.  If companies are going to want people to become brand advocates that establish brands, grow personal networks, and ultimately tap that network for the good of the company, there needs to be a change in how we compensate our employees.  At least that’s what I think.

Where do you stand?

Guest Post – The Not As Big, But Emerging Social Networks

I’m out on vacation this week. The keys to TheKmiecs.com have been turned over to a few, select, awesome guest writers. The following has not been edited by me and is the work and effort of the original author. I appreciate the time and thinking that went into this post and hope you will too. Enjoy!

Despite the noisy dominance of the big boy social networks with millions of users (Facebook, YouTube, Twitter, and MySpace, amongst others), it’s easy to forget that there is a healthy amount of growth amongst smaller and emerging social networks. These smaller social networks, aren’t quite hitting the fun part of the hockey stick growth curve yet but they are significantly pushing the innovation envelope and are creating exciting new communities of users. Often, emerging social networks are rapidly innovating features to develop niche communities outside the realm of big boy networks that are more intimate, engaged and closer knit. For marketers, it’s an important to be aware of these emerging networks and burgeoning social interactions that could create new and interesting ways of meshing together brand relationships.

Most recently, the relaunch of Virb, yet another social network, is a healthy indication about the overall growth of emerging networks. With around 250,000 users, it’s a tadpole compared to the bigboy numbers but nevertheless, it’s a significant community. TechCrunch has a well written synopsis about many of the changes but most of the improved and relaunched features go about improving the social community of Virb. While many of the features sound identical to what is seen in larger networks, Virb has gone deep to allow all users to extensively customize profiles with full HTML customization. Unlike MySpace, they’ve gone further to allow a viewer to the option to view profiles without any customization. This subtle feature set has allowed a growing base of design oriented individuals and media centric profile users to create a vibrant user community. Without question, these are individuals that probably have a Facebook profile but are supplementing their Virb use to embrace another aspect of their social profile.

Tumblr, a small-short form blog provider, has been exploding with it’s incredibly simple tools to create not just text based blog posts but creative web content. As their purpose of allowing users to rapidly push content outward, they have created another community of users immersed in this world of spreading information and re-sharing information with very low technical barriers. This community is expanding because Tumblr is aggressively providing new features that improve it’s social network and differentiate itself amongst the larger crowd.

Since the teams at Virb and Tumblr are significantly smaller than Facebook, an immense amount of innovation is rapidly churning the platforms that make emerging social networks an exciting development. A particularly simple but innovative feature is Tumblr’s phonecall to audio post which allows a user to call a 1-800 number and leave a recorded message that is automatically uploaded to the tumblr user’s blog. While the concept may ring of novelty, the innovative feature idea separates out Tumblr’s social network of users who rapidly creating content from the Facebook users.

These emerging social-networks are growing because people are finding new purposes for using these social networks amongst their daily use of Facebook, YouTube, Twitter and MySpace. For users, there are many new and appealing features and communities to be found in these emerging networks and it shouldn’t surprise anyone if some of these emerging networks turned into an enormous base of users. As many digital marketing efforts have saturated the big boy social networks with effective messages, a great deal of opportunity lies with the emerging social networks like Tumblr, Virb, Veoh, Vimeo, Dopplr, Posterous and targeting specific communities of immersed users and highly engaged individuals.

Johnny Won is a strategist at an ad agency in Boston. He runs on Tumblr johnnywon.com and uses Twitter @johnnywon to keep track of his poor memory.

Guest Post – Marketing Is Supposed To Be About Relationships

I’m out on vacation this week. The keys to TheKmiecs.com have been turned over to a few, select, awesome guest writers. The following has not been edited by me and is the work and effort of the original author. I appreciate the time and thinking that went into this post and hope you will too. Enjoy!

Marketing is supposed to be all about relationships. Based on this belief, it stands to reason that marketers would want to use media that has as its distinguishing feature being part of the connective tissue that holds people together. Thus the enthusiasm for social media and its ilk.

Lots of different vehicles these days are put under the heading of “social media.” Pretty much anything that can facilitate two-way communications between two or more people could be classified as “social media.” Depending on whom you ask email would technically fall into the category of social media. Depending on who else you might ask, so would the telephone or CB radio.

But the kinds of things that have the interests peaked of those who work at the bleeding edge of marketing are tools and technologies that atomizes our expressions, globalizes their reach, and localizes their targetability all at the same time.

We’ve got Twitter to micro-blog every crumb that falls from the buttered toast of our lives. We’ve got Facebook to broadcast the expression of those crumbs to the Etherverse via TwitterSync. And soon to follow will be marketers using the likes of Loopt or Google Latitude to find us where we are when brushing those crumbs from the fronts of our shirts and send us location-based messages on where to buy the bread, where to buy the butter, where to buy the knife with which to spread that butter, and perhaps where to buy the cleaning agents that can clean the shirts from which we are brushing the aforementioned crumbs.

Micro Blogging
Twitter is awfully interesting. I twitter sometimes not at all and sometimes several times a day. Most of the time, posts I read are not here or there in terms of their relevance to my life. They rarely offer a depth of insight on a given subject. But they are sometimes interesting, funny or just downright cute (one fellow I follow posts only things his kids say). Every once in a while there is a link to an article or a video or some other bit of bytes that lead me to that depth and insight Twitter, due to its character constraints, lacks.

Will Twitter hurt how we think and, thus, act, which in turn will change how we market to one another? Maybe. The structure of our language –even our syntax – dictates how we think, it forms the way we conceptualize; the means by which we articulate the world and what is in it informs what it is we think is in the world.

My concern is that the diminishment of formal structure – be it due to a lack of familiarity, willful rejection of it because of some belief that it is authoritarian or elitist, or a restriction of the characters we can write with — will lead to structure’s eradication for the sake of utility. Utility only and always without at least knowing what formal structure needs to be violated in order to achieve it leads to homogenizing, standardizing and monotonizing.

In an environment where infosnacking and reflex replaces deliberation and practiced experience, how we define intelligence and reason will become unrecognizable.

How can something like this be tamed for marketing?

Facebook, MySpace, et al
Marketers are drawn to social networks as an adverting vehicle for the same reasons they are drawn to any media vehicle: the size of its audiences and the popularity it enjoys. That does not, however, always translate into viability as a means for delivering advertising. Toilet paper, after all, is also rather popular. Certainly everyone I know uses it. But I have yet to see ads on it. This is not to equate delivery systems, but rather to demonstrate that widespread use is not a sufficient condition for carrying an ad message. There are reasons why social networking properties should be approached with care:

  • Social networking is just a communication format, not a media vehicle; per se. Social networking is the first decade of the 21st century’s email. Aside from being a domain, do any of the free online email providers, even Gmail, really have a brand? Do any of them offer any specific value to marketers looking to advertising that can’t be had anywhere else? Not really. What they offer is scale (the audiences are huge) and some targetability. Certainly the kind of information available about users will lend itself to greater levels of targetability, but as we’ve already seen, the community is going to police itself against that targetability going too far.
  • The relationship aura an advertiser might hope to benefit from doesn’t always really exist there. It’s a place where people allow others to be connected to them, but they don’t really have relationships there. While expanding the number of “relationships” we have, it degrades their quality for the sake of quantity. Like slicing a peach, with every cut, you lose some juice.
  • Advertisers will have to compete with the brand of ‘Me’ in a social networking environment. Social networking is really a platform for self-branding. People are opening their kimonos to show off their rock-hard abs or their gorgeous breasts or the funny image they shaved in their back hair. It is an opportunity for a kind of narcissism that doesn’t ostensibly put us at physical risk. A Facebook page is like driving down the street with the radio turned up loud and the windows down; it is wearing a concert T-shirt; it is a way of advertising who we want others to think we are.
  • People in marketing and advertising always like to think that the general population likes what we do as much as we do. The general population’s relationship with advertising is at best one of managed hostility, regardless of what one might say about it when the advertising message coming to him or her has been sent by their “BFF” (Best Friend Forever). Will an ensuing deluge of advertising — whether or not it was endorsed by the Lil’ Green Patch friend of a friend — be accepted?

Location Based Services & Targeting
There are as lot of GPS-type applications out there now that, with the growing popularity of smartphones, is experiencing their own surge in popularity. This has the marketing community talking about whether apps like Loopt, Google Latitude, Navteq and others can be used to serve advertising to people based on where they are.

First of all, aside from helicopter parents who might want to know what their kids are doing at every second, are these tools even valuable? Knowing my friends are near is quaint, but, if I’ve already mediated my relationship with them to the point where I’m only communicating with them by posting a note to their Facebook wall, which in turn sends an email to them to tell him or her to go to their Facebook page to read the note I left on their wall, am I REALLY going to make the effort to see them and have a beer, physically, even if they are a few blocks away?

Second, the long-held belief in advertising has been that location somehow makes advertising

a) more meaningful

b) more relevant and thus

c) more effective

But does it? Just because I’m near a McDonald’s doesn’t mean that I’m ready to eat there. Knowing where stores are is valuable, but that’s search addressable more than it is advertising. I think we in advertising and marketing overvalue the tricks of targeting. Most people have a relationship with advertising that is on average one of managed hostility. I don’t know that “adver-stalking” would endear a brand to a potential consumer. I suppose it could operate on an opt-in basis and entice purchase or trial with incentives. But I have my doubts about a marketing application.

What’s the solution to all of the above? Marketers’ least favorite form of advertising due to its lack of forced reach and potential glamour, but it is among the most effective: “Pull” advertising.

It’s what search is, yellow pages used to be, and what widgets are becoming. You approach the opportunity as one where the audience you are trying to reach reaches out to you instead of you reaching out to them, then you’ve got something here.

Jim Meskauskas
VP, Director of Online Media
ICON International
www.twitter.com/mediadarwin

Guest Post – Facebook: Friend Or Foe

I’m out on vacation this week. The keys to TheKmiecs.com have been turned over to a few, select, awesome guest writers. The following has not been edited by me and is the work and effort of the original author. I appreciate the time and thinking that went into this post and hope you will too. Enjoy!

Here we go again. Facebook’s in the news, and this time, it’s not Multi Level Marketers who are upset because Facebook took down an MLM program that was against their TOS. It’s many, many people, who are reacting to the Terms of Service addendum that now states that Facebook may use your information even after you delete your profile.

In monitoring the twitterverse, I was only half surprised to see the uproar from many many people. I’ve learned not to be surprised about this stuff anymore…it’s kind of like high school in that way..when one person gets upset about something, the whole school can get really out of control. But I am still confused at what the fuss is about? Are we afraid that Facebook is going to sell pictures of future celebrities dancing on a bar in their skivvies, taken when that future celeb was drunk and in college? Are we worried that artists will have their stuff resold after being posted on Facebook? When I asked the question of the twitter world, these are the responses I got. But here’s the thing. Ask Miley Cyrus about photos on social networks coming out into mainstream media. There’s no preventing it! Ask any American Idol prospect who had to take down their Myspace profiles in accordance with Fox– their pics are still found, and broadcast everywhere (remember Antonella Barba, kids? How about Frenchie and her foot fetish). And while artists have a more valid point…photos on social media sites like Facebook are so low resolution (they have to be in order to support the volume of photos on the medium) that they couldn’t REALLY be reprinted and resold. And let’s think about this for a second….do we really think that this is why FB is going in this direction? Once the uproar started, Mark Zuckerberg immediately posted his thoughts as to why the TOS were modified, saying basically that it needs to be this way to protect FB when people post information to one another: “People want full ownership and control of their information so they can turn off access to it at any time. At the same time, people also want to be able to bring the information others have shared with them-like email addresses, phone numbers, photos and so on-to other services and grant those services access to those people’s information. These two positions are at odds with each other. There is no system today that enables me to share my email address with you and then simultaneously lets me control who you share it with and also lets you control what services you share it with.” He’s right, of course. They could be better at communicating changes, but hey, we all could be better communicators, right?

Here are my two takeaways:

  1. Facebook is not trying to make a buck from your photos. They don’t give a hoot about your song that you’ve posted either. They’re not the devil. They’re a bunch of kids in their early twenties who have stumbled upon a revolution in the way people are connecting. Facebook is NOT a passing phase (at least in my opinion). It’s crossed the tipping point, and they have to be very careful now that 175 MILLION people are on there. They do need to cross every t, dot every i, and have access to everything. While we’re all thinking about our boobie photos, they may be thinking about suicide notes, and pedophilia, and all that stuff. Seriously.
  2. For goodness sakes, PLEASE assume that everything you post on the internet might show up on the cover of STAR magazine one day. Okay, maybe not STAR, but assume it may land on the desk of your employer. That’s the safest way to stay happy on the internets. :)

Carrie Kerpen is a partner @theKbuzz, a Word of Mouth and Social Media Marketing Firm and contributor to BuzzMarketingDaily.com. She is, in fact, admittedly Facebook obsessed. Email her at carrie@thekbuzz.com or follow her on twitter @carriekerpen :)

Guest Post – Everything I Know About Portable Computing I Learned From Green Eggs and Ham

I’m out on vacation this week. The keys to TheKmiecs.com have been turned over to a few, select, awesome guest writers. The following has not been edited by me and is the work and effort of the original author. I appreciate the time and thinking that went into this post and hope you will too. Enjoy!

From now on, every time you consider the potential for an interactive initiative, you must ask what your audience will be asking:

What can I do with it?

Think back to the story of Green Eggs and Ham. You’re asking someone no try a new idea, and then use that information in a variety of online and offline settings that make the most sense to them.

Merely presenting information is no longer enough. Your audience needs a clear, convenient way to do something with it. Can they use it on a plane? On a train? In a house? With a mouse?

This isn’t over-simplifying: it’s clarity. Your content is best used someplace else. Rhyming makes it more fun. Where is your content best suited? What kinds of content are most used in that place? This will take some investigation, trial and error. The best part about this investigation process is the incredibly valuable surprises you learn along the way. Making your content clean and passable will create its own sidewalks to audiences you never knew existed.

The relationship between Sam and his nay-saying nemesis became stronger once they shared the meal. Green Eggs and Ham is the tie that binds them. There’s no difference between that experience and sharing new content with friends in Flixster, MySpace, or YouTube. It’s the power of discovery.

Helping people share makes their own relationships stronger. We call these social objects today. Regardless of what term we apply, people will continue to look for these opportunities to show something new to a friend or colleague and make a stronger relationship with that content.

Don’t be afraid to show people how to use your content. Give examples. Sam demonstrates every conceivable way to eat green eggs and ham. So should you. Demonstrate the ways that other similar people have used your content. Today we call this social proof. It helps a lot when you can see people like yourself taking specific actions.

FriendConnect and Facebook are both great tools to show your content in the context of friends: making the mental leap of doing something new feel a lot smaller. Letting people share what they find, and putting it in their own terms is the most powerful marketing you’ll never have to buy. Green Eggs and Ham is just one of the stories that have lasted for generations by demonstrating the most entertaining, memorable ways of doing just that.

Thanks to Steve “Doc” Baty (Meld Consulting) for his help on the post.

Michael Leis is a strategic consultant connecting brands, technology, and people. Find out more at http://blog.michaelleis.com or on Twitter @mleis

Can Facebook Still Be Cool If Your Mom Is A Member?

I love my mom. She’s great. And, while I love spending time with her during the holidays and occasionally talking on the phone, the concept of hanging out with my mom at a bar just isn’t my idea of fun.

Think about when you were a kid, didn’t you push to have your mom drop you off at the mall instead of hanging out with you and your friends at the mall? When you went to college, wouldn’t you have been mortified if your mom showed up at a kegger or frat party? Again, there are just some places where you and your mom shouldn’t be hanging out.

In many respects we’ve always thought of our parents as one step behind. Music and fashion are great examples. It’s rare for parents and their kids (regardless of age) to sync on clothes and musicians. Do you remember the Hammer Pants phase? I do; sadly, I owned a few pairs. Could you imagine if your mom embraced Hammer Pants and decided to wear them? The minute she put the pants on that style would no longer be “cool” in your eyes. After all, we spent a good portion of our adolescence trying to be different than our parents.

OK, so what happens when your mom and dad join Facebook? Do you really want your parents to write on your wall? Do you want them to see the photos from last night’s drunken escapades? Of course not. I see more and more parents joining Facebook. Some are joining to keep tabs on their kids. Some are joining to reconnect with old friends. If Facebook was a popular night club that you frequented and all of a sudden you saw your mom at the bar drinking a gin and tonic, wouldn’t you shudder just a little bit? Wouldn’t you rethink coming back to the club? Would you wonder if the club had peaked and was no longer trendy?

In a lot of ways this is what’s happening to Facebook. Now that our/your parents are on Facebook does it mean Facebook has peaked? This is a serious question. For a while we had MySpace all to ourselves. Then we had to move to Facebook. I know there are many other players out there, but those are the big two. Perhaps the reason there are so many other social networking sites is because despite how much we talk about wanting to be connected with the world we really just want to hang out with our own click.

Ning, the site that lets you create your own social network, has continued to grow very quickly. Ditto for Twitter. It’s safe to say that Ning and Twitter, despite their growth, are still not household everyday names. If you will, our parents still don’t know what they are. Could it be that people are flocking to Ning, Twitter, Tumblr, FriendFeed, and others because Facebook just isn’t cool anymore? When our parents start finding the cool clubs we hang out at is the club still cool? More importantly, do we want to hang out at the club if our parents are there with us? I don’t have the answers, yet, but I’m willing to ask the questions.

Mom, I love you, but please don’t join Facebook. If you do, I might have to reject your friend request.

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