Fear, it’s a powerful motivator. We’re all afraid of something. Snakes, spiders, heights, etc.; take your pick, there’s emoting out there we fear. Mine, is getting old. When I say, getting old, I don’t mean aging. I don’t fear a slower metabolism, grey hair or wrinkles. If anything, I welcome those changes. I mean, I have you seen Clooney these days? He’s 54, with salt and pepper hair, wrinkles and the guy looks great. Nah, aging is something I embrace, But, getting old? Yeah, that scares the pants off me.
You don’t have to be “old” to be, well, old. Some of the oldest people I know are young in age. When I think about getting old, it’s in the way, that Danny Glover’s character in Lethal Weapon, famously said, “I’m too old for this shit.”
That statement, is the pure embodiment of what I fear. It’s the idea, that you can no longer do something, because of your age. Too often, after time has slipped passed us, we turn the idea of a bucket list. As I’ve written before, I have no interest in a bucket list. I don’t want to wait til the end to try and capture some semblance of what was acceptable in my youth and make it something that I cross off the list.
I would prefer to take the approach outlined in Tim McGraw’s hit, “Live Like You Were Dying.” Instead of waiting til the proverbial end to capture the energy of your youth, I’d rather, have that energy, every day. Bud Light’s 2015 Super Bowl campaign, “Up For Whatever”, absolutely nails this concept.
Call me to go sky diving? I’m in. Text me at 2 am to grab tacos? I’m in. Delta has a killer deal on tickets to Beirut? Yep, I’m in. I genuinely believe, what makes aging so challenging, is that we forget to keep living. We manage things. We keep things in perspective. We’re more measured. We play it safe. Thanks, but no thanks.
My fear is to grow old. Every day, I work to make that fear, an irrational thought, by choosing to live every day, like was dying.